Post 013: "They Didn’t Ghost You. They Freed You."

It felt like ghosting. 

One day they were there—laughing with you, texting all night, talking about forever. And the next? Silence.

No explanation. No closure. Just absence.

At first, you blamed yourself. Replayed every moment, every message, looking for what you did wrong. But the truth is, they didn’t disappear because of you. They vanished because of who they are.

People who ghost run from emotional depth. From accountability. From connection that requires real effort.

They didn’t ghost you. They freed you from a love that was always one-sided. From a relationship you were building alone. From a future that only existed in your head.
So don’t mourn their silence. Celebrate your clarity.

They made the choice. Now you get to make yours—and it starts with never chasing someone who’s comfortable losing you.